tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5222200573519000188.post3506413005531022853..comments2023-07-16T07:36:40.388-04:00Comments on <br><br><center>ReInventing Lolli</center>: Writing a Birth Plan.ReInventing Lollihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03142370758885730100noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5222200573519000188.post-53723743311439135302011-11-10T09:09:55.037-05:002011-11-10T09:09:55.037-05:00@Neonica25- I am so sorry you had such a bad exper...@Neonica25- I am so sorry you had such a bad experience with your birth plan. Thank you for the tip on being vocal! I will keep it in mind :)ReInventing Lollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03142370758885730100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5222200573519000188.post-37625240281332021792011-11-09T16:16:45.590-05:002011-11-09T16:16:45.590-05:00I had a birthing plan and was very specific about ...I had a birthing plan and was very specific about what I wanted. I think birthing plans are a great idea. But I have to tell you the truth. When I got to the hospital nobody would take it or read it. They wanted me to read it off to them real quick and then go about there way. They claimed they were to busy with a bunch of other patients that were also going into labor to stand around and read my plan. Which made me feel very unimportant and that my wants didn't matter. I didn't even have a long one. I shortend it to a page and a half and they acted like it was still to much to read. I don't know if all hospials will act this way... But The one nurse who did take my plan.. Scott said he saw her throw it away after she left the room and went back to her desk. I had at least 10 nurses come through and take care of me while I was in the hospital and never had the same one twice. The whole idea for having my plan was so I didn't have to explain everytime someone new came in to take care of me what I wanted. But for whatever reason they all kind of acted the same and didn't really want to hear my birth plan and was busy. No matter what with the next one I am still writing one and going to a different hospital. Hopefully I will have better luck next time. I hope people are more respectful to you about what you want.. but in the event you get uncareing people like this... My advice is to be very verbal with everyone about the most important things as much as possible.I Love My Life As a Mommy & a Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08795625163798897745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5222200573519000188.post-81582955914676308282011-11-09T14:10:54.266-05:002011-11-09T14:10:54.266-05:00@sensiblygreen- Haha so sorry,I meant after baby i...@sensiblygreen- Haha so sorry,I meant after baby is born.I changed it:) <br /><br />Thanks so much for sharing your story with me! <br /><br />I will stop by your blog :)ReInventing Lollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03142370758885730100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5222200573519000188.post-28504572610863180442011-11-09T10:30:57.984-05:002011-11-09T10:30:57.984-05:00Bonding time *before* baby is born? Do you mean wi...Bonding time *before* baby is born? Do you mean with your hubby? I got lost there!<br /><br />I did not write a birth plan. I asked my doctor if I should, but he mentioned that they do everything as natural as possible except if it is time to save a life. It turned out that I needed a C-section because I had complete placenta previa. bummer. However... I was very specific about not wanting narcotics after the C-section was done, I react really bad to them, I asked during nine months and then at the interviewee with the anesthesiologist and in the recovery room, but the nurse injected me anyway!!! I am still upset about that because then I was so groggy I could not take care of my baby right away!! ;_; I already told my husband that next time he is to stay with me all the time to make sure that does not happen (it did while he was phoning his family to tell the good news).<br /><br />Hey, I am hosting a nursing necklace giveaway, if you care, I am finding mine really useful! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com